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December 3, 2017

When Christmas Makes You Sad

girl praying in snow christmas

Oh sweet friend, just writing this post makes my heart feel pangs of sadness.  Thinking about you makes tears run down my cheeks.  I understand all too well as just a few years ago I was you.  I was the girl who couldn’t find her Christmas, no matter where she looked.  I was the girl with an empty, aching heart.

If thoughts of the Holidays cause you to feel sad and make you want to sleep until mid-January when every single trace of Christmas is gone, you’re not alone.  I was right there with you.

Let me share my story.

A few years ago, as the Holidays approached, they felt different.  I pushed it aside as much as I could, until the obvious was staring me straight in the face.  I put up my tree, made handmade decorations, shopped till I dropped, baked cookies, watched Rudolph, burnt yummy smelling candles…and still nothing.  I still couldn’t feel Christmas.  Why couldn’t I FEEL it?  I ran down the to-be-happy-at-Christmas checklist, put marks in all the boxes and I still wasn’t happy.

I was sassy.  I cried.  I was mean.  I cried.  I was sad.  I cried.  I was distant.  I cried.  I was heartbroken.  I had myself a big ole’ pity party and cried more than I care to admit.  Daily, I alternated between trying to talk myself out of it and justifying my feelings.  Christmas was just so expensive and money was tight.  I didn’t have any close friends to do fun Christmas stuff with.  My dog was aging and couldn’t walk some days.  The weather was yucky.  There wasn’t any snow.  I missed my Grandma who had passed away.  My family didn’t get together anymore on Christmas Eve.  I could go on and on.

My heart was just sad.

Christians are not supposed to be like this, especially not at the time of year when we are celebrating the birth of Jesus!  We are meant to be shiny happy people radiating His love to all who pass us.  We are to be beacons of light not sobbing over Christmas cookies.

We were celebrating Jesus entering the world just to die for us.  And I was still sad.  Which in turn made me feel guilty.  That guilt then made me even sadder.

I’m going to be honest.  I wish I could give you a magical cure, to offer words that would dry up your tears and heal your aching heart.  What I found was no matter how much I tried to talk myself out of it, it was just a valley I had to walk through.  And that was okay.

I realized that year that the sad, lonely, empty spaces in my broken heart are exactly what that Baby born in a manger came to fill.

Friend, if you’re hurting this holiday season…It’s okay to hurt.

People will, no doubt, tell you to just “get over it” and “move on”.  And maybe you feel like you should be over it, but you just don’t know how to be.  I want to tell you this…it’s okay.

If there is anything I’ve learned over the past few years, it’s this.  When God leads you through a valley, don’t close your eyes.  Keep them open as wide as you can.  Along the journey, even in the midst of the valley, there will be beautiful blessings prepared just for you.

I promise you, some day you will find joy in the Holidays again.  God has joy planned for you!!  At first, it may come in a little smile here or there.  Or you find yourself actually singing along to a Christmas carol.  Embrace it!  Smile.  Laugh.  Hug.  Eat.  Fellowship.  And when the tears come, embrace them too.  Cry over Christmas cookies if you need to.  Be honest and brave.

Healing will come.  Laughter will return.  Joy will emerge from this dark season.  A Holiday season will feel almost normal again.

Filed in: christmas • by Amy • 5 Comments

December 1, 2017

Hello. Goodbye.


Hello December, goodbye November
Hello my fav month…you’re so happy, festive, sparkly, shiny and you smell really super good
Hello Christmas tree, goodbye pumpkins
Hello family time + lots of laughs


Hello celebrating the real reason for the season, the birth of Christ
Hello Christmas ham {my fav}, goodbye Thanksgiving turkey
Hello holiday baking, goodbye self control
Hello hot chocolate, goodbye hot cider
Hello season of giving, goodbye buying for myself


Hello streaming Christmas music all.the.time., goodbye regular radio stations
Hello to every Christmas movie out there, goodbye non-holiday movies
Hello happy mail daily, goodbye boring mail


Hello crafting presents, goodbye boring evenings
Hello kids Christmas program, goodbye dry eyes
Hello Christmas caroling and Christmas wrapping, goodbye free time
Hello making lists and checking them twice
Hello the season I’ve waited for all year long
Hello the season that feels extra magical this year

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November 29, 2017

Pressure Canning Leftover Turkey

canned turkey

The USDA estimates that Americans throw away about 200 million pounds of turkey meat after their Thanksgiving meal.  Y’all, I had to read that twice.  200 million pounds?  The thought of eating turkey every single day following Thanksgiving is exhausting.  Not to mention sometimes there is so much left that there isn’t any possible way to eat it all before it goes bad.  The solution?  Canning it to use throughout the year in so many different ways.  Turkey noodle soup, turkey noodle casserole, turkey and dumplings, turkey pot pie…I could go on and on.

In a past post, I’ve showed you how to can chicken by using the raw pack method.  This is where the chicken cooks during the processing.  I’ve also showed you how to can your own chicken broth.  Today I’m going to show you how to can meat that has already been cooked.

First things first, you need to make your broth.  We need broth because we will be adding it in the jars with the meat.

First gather your ingredients.  You’ll need onions, celery, garlic, carrots, salt and pepper.

I already had a container in my freezer I had been saving to make chicken broth.  On Thanksgiving, I saved the entire carcass along with the skin, neck, giblets and any other pieces I could use to make broth.  I put everything in a large stock pot, all the chicken and turkey pieces.  I figured mixing the two together would just give me a more complex, rich broth.  Don’t worry about dicing or making your veggies pretty.  I just quarter the onion, cut the celery and carrots in half and let the garlic cloves whole.  Cover everything with water.  I put enough water so everything is covered by at least 3 inches on top.

Bring the whole thing to a boil, and then turn it down to a simmer.  It takes a minimum of 3 hours to turn bones into broth but I like to let mine go a lot longer than that.  The longer it reduces, the richer your broth will be.  The last time mine cooked for about 12 hours.  I’m not going to tell you to taste it to see if it’s done.  If you’ve cooked it for longer than 3 hours, it’s done.  Although I highly recommend letting it cook for longer than that.  At this point it’s probably more of a chicken stock. A more reduced, darker, stronger, thicker version of broth.  And amazingly yummy in recipes!

canner with stock

After you’ve simmered the broth down, you’ll need to dip it out and strain it through a colander.  I use a small sauce pot to dip it out into a colander on top of a pitcher.  That allows me to easily pour the broth once it’s strained.  If you’re using a bowl, you’ll probably need a few bowls.  You don’t realize just how much broth you made until you get to this point.  You can also strain it a second time through cheesecloth to get those small bits that the colander let through.

canner with stock

turkey stock

Once you have the broth strained stick it in the fridge overnight to allow the fat to rise and solidify at the top.  I’m going to be honest here, I don’t skim the fat off of mine.  There really isn’t that much fat plus the fat gives it more flavor, at least in my mind it does.  If you do want to skim the fat off, just take it out of the fridge the next morning and remove the hardened fat with a spoon.

Now let’s get on to canning!

Start with clean, sterilized jars.  I run my jars through a cycle in the dishwasher to sterilize them.  Being that my turkey was in the fridge and is cold when I pack it in, I don’t keep the jars hot.  I don’t want to take the chance of having broken jars in the canner.  We all know what happens when you mix hot and cold.

I started by cutting the turkey into chunks.  Once I would get a handful chunked, I would pack it into my jars.  For this, I used half-pint jars.  I could fit about 3.5 – 4 ounces in each jar.  If you are using pint jars, you could fit around 7 – 8 ounces.  I fill the jars about half-way, then push it down and make sure all the nooks and crannies are filled in.  Then pack more turkey chunks in on top.

turkey

Make sure you have 1 1/4″ headspace between the turkey and the rim of your jar.  I have learned not to fill the jars exactly 1 1/4″ from the top.  I stop at maybe 1 1/2″ or so.  I noticed that some of the juices come out of the jar during processing.  If you under-pack the jar just a smidge it takes care of that problem.  In canning, headspace is the amount of space you leave between the rim of the jar and whatever you’re filling it with.  Each thing requires a different headspace.  I have a funnel that also has markings on the side to measure headspace.  Here is a little headspace chart to follow:

  • Leave 1-inch headspace for low-acid foods, vegetables and meats.
  • Leave 1/2-inch headspace for high-acid foods, fruits and tomatoes.
  • Leave 1/4-inch headspace for juicers, jams, jellies, pickles, and relishes.

canning turkey

Once the meat is packed in the jar, I added some of the broth I had just made.  I filled the jar with broth, making sure to cover the meat but leave the proper amount of headspace.  I use a Prepworks by Progressive Canning Funnel.  I absolutely love that it has headspace measurements on the side and that it fits regular and wide mouth jars.

I also had quite a bit of broth leftover after filling the jars, so I went ahead and got it ready to can as well.

canning turkey

Wipe the rim of the jar off.  Never forget this step!  Even when you’re using a funnel, you are bound to get something on the rim.  And if the rim isn’t clean, it won’t seal properly.

Put your lids and rings on the jars.

Since my jars were “cold packed”, I didn’t prep my pressure canner ahead of time.  Being that my jars were still cold from putting the turkey and broth in them, I wanted to prevent my jars from breaking once the canning process started.  I put 3 quarts of hot tap-water in the pressure canner and sat my jars down in.  I gave them enough time to warm up a bit from the water before I even turned the burner on.  Make sure to read your directions for your specific canner to see how much water they advise.  Also, a little tip, to keep your jars from being “spotty” you’ll want to add 2 tablespoons of white vinegar to the water.

pressure canner with jars

The first thing you need to do is vent your canner.  Venting means getting rid of the steam inside the canner so you can build up pressure.  To vent, you put your lid on and make sure it’s sealed  (follow the manufacturers instructions for this as well) and turn the heat up to medium or medium/high.  You DO NOT want your weight on yet.  When steam is steadily coming out of the vent, set your timer for 10 minutes.  Once the timer goes off, you’re ready for the next step.

pressure canner

Put your weight on the canner, being careful of the steam that’s coming out, and wait for it to come to pressure.  Once it’s up to pressure, set your timer for the appropriate time below.  Remember to only start the timer once your canner is up to pressure.  Waiting for the canner to get up to pressure sometimes takes several minutes, and it will feel like time stands still.  Just be patient, it will get there.

75 minutes at 15 lbs for pint jars (if you are under 1,000 ft. altitude, use 10 lbs)
90 minutes at 15 lbs for quart jars (if you are under 1,000 ft. altitude, use 10 lbs)

pressure canner

You may need to adjust the heat up or down during this time.  If you see your pressure rising above what it should be, reduce the heat.  If you see it falling below what it should be, raise your heat.  I normally don’t leave my kitchen while I’m pressure canning, just so I can keep a close watchful eye on the pressure.

When your timer goes off, turn the stove off.  Actually, turn the stove off and walk away.  Go take a much deserved seat for a while.  You HAVE to leave the lid on and allow the pressure canner to return to normal pressure.  I just let mine sit for quite a while.  Once the pressure is down to normal you can remove the lid and take your jars out.   Always remove the lid facing away from you so you don’t get burned with steam.  I then use the jar lifter to remove them from the canner.  And I always set them on a kitchen towel then cover them with another towel.  I don’t want them to cool down too quickly.

If you are new to pressure canning, I highly suggest purchasing a book on it.  The Ball Blue Book is a fabulous resource!  There are some variables to consider, like altitude, and a book would be a great resource to get you familiar with pressure canning.

And nothing is quite as satisfying after a long, exhausting day of canning than seeing all those jars full of food you prepared with love for your family.  Give yourself a high-five!

Canning supplies I use, with links to purchase:
Pressure Canner – Presto 01781 23-Quart Pressure Canner and Cooker
Funnel – Prepworks by Progressive Canning Funnel for Regular and Wide Mouth Jars
Ladel – Prepworks by Progressive Canning Scoop
Jar Lifter –Prepworks by Progressive One Handed Canning Jar Lifter
Pint Jars – Ball Pint Jar, Regular Mouth, Set of 12
Ball Blue Book – Ball Blue Book Guide To Preserving, 37Th Edition
Pressure Canning Cookbook – My All American® Pressure Canner Cookbook: 120 Foolproof and Fun Recipes for Home Preserving

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