Kindness is immensely powerful.
What do people believe about Jesus based on the way you treat them? What do your interactions with people say about your Savior? Do the words you speak reflect what our Savior would have said?
Those are hard questions to hear, aren’t they? Our world is a heavy one right now friend.
How would Jesus have handled the controversial issues in our world today? He would have first showed them love!
Jesus continually loved on people. Even the people he felt needed His help the most, first He showed them love. HE LOVED THEM! Is it easier to hear criticism from someone if they loved on you first? If they said it with kindness and you knew their heart was in the right place? Absolutely! It’s all about love, kindness and grace. God’s greatest commandment was love one another (John 13:34).
Ephesians 4:32 says And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you. And be ye KIND one to another.
Kind. Kind. Kind.
Kindness is a fruit of the Spirit y’all. Like the other fruits of the spirit, it can only be obtained through abiding in Christ. It is an outgrowth of the genuineness of our faith. According to the Zondervan NIV Bible Commentary, the Greek word translated kindness here is “the divine kindness out of which God acts toward humankind. It is what the Old Testament means when it declares that ‘God is good,’ as it so frequently does. Christians should show kindness by behaving toward others as God has behaved toward them.”
Kindness is humbly giving of ourselves in love and mercy to others who may not be able to give anything back. To someone that doesn’t deserve it and who frequently doesn’t thank us for it.
At times kindness can be associated with weakness. But let me tell you, it is anything but. It requires extraordinary strength and courage to show kindness, especially to those who don’t deserve it. And let’s be clear: not a one of us “deserves” it all the time. There are times when responding with kindness has felt like it almost killed this stubborn, hard-headed girl. In those moments, I always think back to my Dad and how he would respond.
Kindness is being considerate, generous, warm-hearted, and gentle. It’s being friendly when the person across from you isn’t, it’s being warm when she’s cold, it’s being soft when they are hard, it’s giving when she has nothing to give in return, it’s running through the McDonald’s drive-thru to give that homeless person a warm meal and sometimes it comes in the form of holding your tongue.
Kindness is scrolling past the political post you vastly disagree with, it’s walking past the person in the store that gave you a side-eye because your baby is crying, it’s offering empathy and compassion to others, it’s standing with every race because we are all God’s children and it’s being selfless.
Kindness is carefully measuring your words, so you don’t hurt someone’s feelings. And so your words don’t become a stumbling block to them.
Kindness isn’t fair, just or equal. Kindness doesn’t speak of the character of the receiver, but it speaks volumes about the giver.
Unexpected kindness is the most powerful, least costly and most underrated agent of human change.
There have been times when I’ve felt that gentle nudge on my heart to extend kindness to someone. I’ve heard echoes of you’re naive, you’re being taken advantage of and you’re too easy. My response is always the same. When I feel called to be kind to someone, how I answer that call matters!
As Christ followers, we are to love as He loved us. And His love is always, always wrapped up tightly in kindness. We see time and time again His love offered to undeserving people. A wife who just disrespected her husband, a child who just sassed their parent, a husband who just laughed at an inappropriate joke…in other words, every single one of us. Because even the most devout Christian has some form of sin in their life.
Hosea 11:4 says I led them with cords of human kindness, with ties of love. To them I was like one who lifts a little child to the cheek, and I bent down to feed them.
We need to learn to be gentle, sensitive, and tenderhearted. When we start being tenderhearted, it’s easy to be kind. Having a heart that is easily touched and sensitive doesn’t mean your weak, although that’s what some would lead you to believe. If we are sensitive to those around us, we start seeing their needs instead of our own. Have a loving, tenderhearted, compassionate attitude and let it shine for everyone to see.
We are called to be kind to others because God is kind to us. He loves us when we are unlovable, and He does this over and over again. Kindness is extremely powerful. You can change lives with your actions. You can change lives by your words. You can change lives with your kindness. You can change lives by allowing Christ’s love to shine through you.
Don’t ever be afraid to show your kindness. You might be the one voice in their life at the moment that they need to hear. Your encouragement might be the one thing that keeps them going.
Maybe you are the one who will help them see Jesus through your kindness.
Your kindness matters.
