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August 30, 2018

Christians and Tattoos

Not long ago a Christian blogger created a social media storm with her post “Men prefer debt free virgins without tattoos”.  It quickly made it’s way across social media with opinions in tow.

As soon as I read it, my heart was saddened.  I felt it’s harsh judgmental overtone silenced the most important thing, the sovereign grace of God.

And the article has opened up a discussion among many people.

Is it a sin to get a tattoo?

Tattoos have grown in popularity in recent years.  36% of Americans between the age of 18 and 29 have at least one tattoo.  We see tattoos on Christian artists, athletes, in Disney movies (Moana) and we’ve even saw a tattooed Barbie!  And with the popularity of tattoos rising daily, it has left many Christians asking the question if it’s a sin to get a tattoo.

Christians getting tattoos is a controversial topic.  Google this issue, and you’ll see opinions varying from “Go for it!” to “You’ll go to hell for it.”

Let’s take a look at what the Bible says about tattoos first.

There isn’t really anything definitive Bible anywhere.  It makes no specific reference to tattoos as we understand them in modern times.  But many condemn tattoos because of Leviticus 19:28.  I think to understand the full concept of it, we need to include Leviticus 19:27 as well.

27 You must not cut off the hair at the sides of your head or clip off the edges of your beard. 28 You must not make any cuts in your bodies for the dead or put tattoo marks on yourselves. I am the LORD.

Since the word tattoo does appear in this verse in some popular English translations, this argument seems straightforward.  But let’s translate it some.  It translates to, “And a cutting for the dead you will not make in your flesh; and writing marks you will not make on you; I am the Lord.”

The word writing refers to inscribed or engraved symbols/words, and is used only here.  The Jews learned a custom in Egypt of making deep gashes on the face and arms and legs in times of bereavement.  It was deemed a becoming mark of respect for the dead, as well as a sort of propitiatory offering to the deities who presided over death and the grave.  The Egyptians also tattooed their bodies with symbols of pagan gods.

The word marks, also used here alone, has an uncertain root, so we’re not really sure what the word means.  Some that say this is in connection with those who marked their bodies with a known figure for the dead.  The Canaanites would customarily slash, gash and brand their bodies for ritualistic purposes.

Further, the word tattoo did not enter into the English language until the late 1700s.  This is probably why the KJV, written in the early 1600s, is closer to the literal translation saying, “ye shall not…print marks upon you.”  The 18th-century explorer Captain James Cook is widely considered to be the first person to have introduced the word now known as “tattoo” to Europe, after returning to the continent in 1771 after his first voyage to Tahiti and New Zealand.

God gave this command to the Israelites around 1444 B.C. (right after the parting of the Red Sea) to forbid them from practicing the idolatrous customs they’d picked up in Egyptian captivity.  So God essentially said to the Israelites, I don’t want you to practice those silly superstitions anymore.  You’re my people, and I love you.

The heart of God’s message isn’t about body art, but about reminding the Israelites they belong to him.

If we are going to use that verse as our justification for condemning all tattoos, then I’d hope you’re also against ear piercing, cutting hair and trimming beards.

Also in Isaiah 49:16 we see Jesus say “See, I have inscribed you on the palm of my hands; your walls are ever before me”.  Though tattoo opponents sometimes quickly graze over that verse.  Or, one of my favorites, is being told we’ve interpreted and translated it wrong.

If we are going to take the literal application of every moral and ceremonial rule handed down to the Israelites no one could eat fruit for 3 years after a tree was planted (Leviticus 19:23), rare steaks and burgers would be a no go (Leviticus 19:26), we wouldn’t be swinging by Holiday Hair for a quick trim and color (Leviticus 19:27), no more Chinese buffet after church on Sunday (Exodus 31), you can’t bury (can’t even touch) Rover once he dies (Leviticus 5:2), yummy shrimp scampi would be no more (Leviticus 11:10), you can’t go to church for 33 days after you have a boy and 66 days after you have a girl (Leviticus 12:5) and you can’t mix fabrics no matter how cute they are (Leviticus 19:19).

While Jesus never said “ye shall not get tattoos”, we do see Him concerned with one thing.

Your heart.

Scripture clearly teaches us that the real issues of life are spiritual and are really matters of the heart.  In Mathew 15:10-20 and Mathew 23:25-28 we see Jesus is far more concerned with the inner man than someone who had only an outward appearances of holiness.

Avoiding tattoo parlors or Red Lobster doesn’t make you righteous – Jesus’ death and resurrection do!

Before getting any tattoo, take some time to read Psalm 139.  Remind yourself that God thinks you are beautiful with or without embellishments.  You are His perfectly perfect creation, handcrafted by the same hands that made the stars.  There are billions of us here on earth, but does that make any of us less valuable?  Absolutely not!  If you found billions of diamonds would they be less valuable because there were so many?

You are loved, always.  God is love.  God can’t help loving because it is an essential part of His character.  He goes looking for us when we wander away from Him.  He won’t rest until He finds us and brings us back home to Him.  He will pursue us tirelessly until we are returned to Him, our loving Father.

Jesus doesn’t care if we are messy, missing some parts or tattooed when He finds us. He welcomes us home to Him just the way we are.

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If you are reading this and are strongly opposed to tattoos, let me say one thing.  You know what Jesus wants us to do?  Love on others.  Being haughty, judgmental and demeaning isn’t going to make the masses want to come to church on Sunday.  But you loving on them will…regardless if they have tattoos, have a past (and come on, we ALL do), drink, are homeless, heck even if they are prostitutes or heroin addicts.  LOVE THEM!  You know what Jesus would do? Go to them, sit with them and sweetly love on them.

Filed in: Christianity • by Amy • 3 Comments

August 28, 2018

The Unspoken of Chronic Illness

The past year I’ve dove deeper into chronic illness, and the diagnosis’s seem to pile up.  It’s all so new, yet so familiar.

I will tuck my hand into my husbands and walk into a new doctors office, sit shoulder to shoulder with smiling strangers all fighting their own terrifying battle.

I can always count on each new hospital to be bathed in white, to have the same beeps and dings ringing throughout and to have the same sterile smell.

And I will always feel guilt.

In the middle of a seemingly normal day, it will wash over me like the warm summer rain.

Something I often feel but seldom speak about because, in all honesty, I feel guilty about guilt.

It can come in seeing chores you used to do faithfully now seem like an insurmountable task.  It can come in seeing a loved ones eyes filled with concern and fear over your illness.  It can come in well-meaning comments from others just come off a little stingy.  It can come in the quiet of the day when you’re left alone with your thoughts.

I feel guilt that my children don’t remember their Mama before she was sick.  I feel guilt that my husband got dealt a sick wife that he has to take care of.  I feel guilt that I can’t be the housewife I once was.  I feel guilt that my loved ones worry so much about me, even though they hide their tears from me.  I feel guilt because I have imposed on the lives of people that I love in ways that are not fair to any of them.

And then I feel guilt because I’m a Christian, and I know without a doubt God has wrote this journey for me.  We are meant to be shiny happy people radiating His love to all who pass us.  We are to be beacons of light not sobbing over not feeling well enough to cook dinner.

I could honestly go on and on with reasons I feel guilty, and I’m sure you can add to the list as well.

But there are a few things I need to remind myself of, some days minute by minute, to combat the overwhelming feeling of guilt.

God chose me.

He hand-picked me to carry these chronic illnesses because He trusts me to remain faithful in the middle of every trial.  He knows I will give Him all the glory.  He chose me to walk this path for a reason.  I always remind myself that reason may be that someone else needs to watch my walk.  They need to see my testimony during the storm.  They need to see “Not I, but Christ”.

Seek out blessings and joy.

So many times we want joy, but not trails.  We want faith, but not testing.

Y’all, I’m going to be honest, I’ve thought many times how much easier my life would be without pain, without surgeries, without loneliness and without financial hardships.

But God often uses the hard to refine us.  To transform us into the person we were created to be in the first place.  More like Him.

My life isn’t over, it’s just different.

I’m still here.  I’m still alive.  I’m still able to laugh with my kids.  I’m still able to go on dates with my husband.  I’m still able to walk next door and visit with my parents.  Yes, my days look different but my life is very much from over.

Those who love us understand.

They just love us unconditionally.  They don’t see us as the inconvenience we feel like we are.  If that means taking more breaks on a shopping day or visiting while you lay on the couch, they are perfectly fine with that.

God loves me.

God loves all of us extravagantly.  And He’s not finished with a single one of us.  The fact is, He has a sovereign plan that is for good and not evil.  For joy and not sorrow.  He is writing a story of on-going redemption with each of our lives.  Our lives are woven together through seasons.  It’s one person’s season to experience this.  And another person’s season to experience that.  Neither is loved more.  Neither is more dispensable.

Let me assure you that our Heavenly Father is aware of all of our struggles, of the guilt and shame you carry daily, and He is reaching out to you with His loving hand.  He is ready and willing to wrap His arms around all of us.  He wants to carry and comfort us through our hard, through the seasons that are exhausting and guilt filled. I encourage you to let Him.  Reach up and let go.  Let Him carry of all your guilt, shame, worry and concern for you.  There will be days you’ll have to continually give it to Him.  The peace He gives you in return is unlike any other.

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August 27, 2018

Low Carb Chili Cheese Dog Bake

When my husband and I began eating low carb months ago, I had no idea how I was going to survive.  I mean, carbs were my life y’all.  Since then I’ve been determined to take normal recipes and not only make them low carb but also make them yummy.  I want to eat low carb without missing carbs!

One of my favorite casseroles that we use to have was a Chili Cheese Dog Bake.  Yummy hot dogs and cheese wrapped in a puffy, flaky crust resting on a bed of homemade chili.  Yes, please!  I’ve been so hungry for it, so last week I did some experimenting to replicate a low carb version.

Let me tell you, this did not disappoint!  Layers of cheesy, chili hot dog goodness.  A delicious meal for the entire family!  Enjoy!


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Low Carb Chili Cheese Dog Bake
Servings
Ingredients
  • 1 lb ground beef
  • 1/2 onion chopped
  • 1/2 clove garlic
  • 1 tbs. tomato paste
  • 1 cup low sugar ketchup
  • 1 cup water
  • 3 tbs. Splenda brown sugar
  • 1/2 tsp. smoked paprika
  • 1/4 tsp. chili powder
  • 1/4 tsp. cumin
  • 1/4 tsp. ground mustard
  • 1/8 tsp. cinnamon
  • 1 pack hot dogs (8)
  • 2 cups shredded cheddar cheese
  • 1/4 cup heavy cream
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/2 cup mayonnaise
Servings
Ingredients
  • 1 lb ground beef
  • 1/2 onion chopped
  • 1/2 clove garlic
  • 1 tbs. tomato paste
  • 1 cup low sugar ketchup
  • 1 cup water
  • 3 tbs. Splenda brown sugar
  • 1/2 tsp. smoked paprika
  • 1/4 tsp. chili powder
  • 1/4 tsp. cumin
  • 1/4 tsp. ground mustard
  • 1/8 tsp. cinnamon
  • 1 pack hot dogs (8)
  • 2 cups shredded cheddar cheese
  • 1/4 cup heavy cream
  • 2 eggs
  • 1/2 cup mayonnaise
Instructions
  1. Chili Sauce: Sauté meat, garlic and onions till browned. Drain the grease from the pan. Add all the spices and stir well. Keep stirring until fragrant, being careful not to burn them. Then add in the tomato paste, ketchup and water. I added a little more water, until it was the consistency I liked. Cook over super low heat for 3-4 hours. Make sure to watch it so it doesn’t dry out and stick. Once it was finished cooking, I use a immersion hand blender to make it a finer consistency. Once the chili is ready, you can start assembling the casserole.
  2. Preheat the oven to 350.
  3. Placed sliced hot dogs on the bottom of the casserole dish. Add half of the chili in a layer on top of the hot dogs. And top the chili with one cup of cheese. Do another layer with the remaining chili.
  4. In a separate bowl beat eggs, then add mayonnaise and heavy whipping cream. Stir until smooth and pour on top of the chili.
  5. Top with remaining cheese and bake for 30 minutes or until cheese begins to brown.
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