Empowering women to love their body, as is, is one of my passions. So many times, we let the wrong factors define our worth. We allow failed relationships, body image, abuse, past choices and health to define us. We allow feelings of being useless, ignored, ugly, overweight, unloved or forgotten to circle around us. Sadly, we repeatedly allow these factors to define us. We allow our feelings to dictate our identity.

In those moments of weakness, where the lies seem to continually circle around, refuse to give in to them. Remember that you are loved, as-is. And retraining your heart to know that is absolutely worth the fight.

“I am unwaveringly ME; and the same goes for YOU. No matter what you’re struggling with, embrace what you have to offer, love yourself right this minute and start affecting positive change for yourself and others.”—Whitney

What does Jesus think of us? What does He think our worth is? Well, He thought you and I were worth dying for! And if He thinks that much of us, why would we ever allow others to degrade the life He went through so much to save? He thinks we are worth far more than rubies! {Proverbs 31:10}

Some days, without fail, old insecurities will come knocking on the doors of our hearts. We’re tempted to tell lies about ourselves to ourselves when we’re rejected or knocked down or feeling not quite … enough.

But in those moments of weakness, I refuse to give in to the lies. I will continue to tell myself I am loved, as-is, not as I think I should be.

Retraining my heart will take years. But I know it is worth the fight.


Let me speak directly to your heart. Believe it, sweet girls. Pretty please with cream and sugar on top. Know that what Jesus says about you is genuine – that you a treasure, of great worth, a woman with infinite value. No matter what size you are.  No matter what you look like.  No matter what anyone says. No matter what you’ve done. No matter your past. No matter how you feel. It’s true!

Oh, how fun this prompt was! I always love going back and re-reading past posts I’ve written. Here is a list of my top 10 favorite blog posts ever.

1.  Parenting A Child With Anxiety – This post is so very special to me, and so close to my heart. With this blog post, I want to give you a glimpse into parenting a child that has been diagnosed with Anxiety Disorder, Panic Disorder, slight OCD and Dyslexia.

2.  Why I’m Not Raising A Feminist Daughter – This explains why we teach submission, headship and living a Christ-centered marriage. While it might not be the worlds opinion, we are following Gods word. That will bring joy, peace, contentment, fulfillment and freedom! And in turn, your life will bring glory to God. Isn’t that what it’s all about?

3.  An Open Letter To My Husband On Our 20th Anniversary – Twenty years ago, we became husband and wife. At 22 and 20, we were just a couple of kids so madly in love. We didn’t know a lot back then, but we knew one thing for certain: we belonged together.

4.  Saving Your First Kiss – We need to recognize the kiss as an incredible gift that God has given each one of us to fully embrace and enjoy in the right context. Instead of lowering its value and blowing it off as just-a-kiss let’s view it as a precious, sacred gift.

5.  Dear Body – Remember when we were little and we were friends? You weren’t good or bad or fat or thin or ugly or beautiful. You were just me.

6.  Walking Through Valleys – I am walking in a wilderness right now. A wilderness full of friends walking hand-in-hand, while I walk alone.

7.  I’m Tired Of The Not-Enoughs – I had all the right words for her but I was too busy living with not enoughs, I couldn’t model this truth for her.

8.  An Open Letter To Those Who Have Walked Out Of My Life – I will always love you. I know that sounds unbelievable for me to say. Especially since you’re the one who chose to walk out of my life. But those words hold true.

9.  Piece By Piece – Sometimes a difficult day comes out of nowhere, surprising you with its emotions and frustrations.

10. Kindness Matters – Kindness is honestly one of the greatest gifts you can give someone. As Christians, kindness is something He expects from us.

This was a hard one and took quite a bit of thinking on my end. While my first response may have been someone famous where wealth abounds, I always kept coming back to the same person that I admire. Nicci Lynn from A Farmhouse Full.

Nikki is married to her high school sweetheart, and got married young like us. She has eight littles, just having her eighth one. She loves Jesus, she’s a crafter and she lives on a farm. She has many things my heart has dreamed of…a large family with lots of little feet running around the house and living on a farm.

I admire her ability to still look gorgeous daily, having her hair and makeup done, despite having 8 kids in her home.  It hurries me to not look a hot mess daily, and I only have two teenagers that basically fend for themselves.

Nikki is full of her love for Jesus, and always points to Him in every post or video she makes. She’s quick to give Him the glory for every aspect of her life. She’s an absolute joy to follow on social media!

You can find Nikki here:

Website – afarmhousefull.com
YouTube – www.youtube.com/user/AFarmhouseFull
Instagram – www.instagram.com/afarmhousefull